Sunday, April 27, 2014

farewell first house

we are no longer homeowners. it happened very fast and seemed like such wild timing, but then who am i to think i know best all the time? our house sold quickly and without really being listed to dear people who will love the old house and our neighbors well. it's bittersweet. moving always is i think, but by God's grace, my clenched hands have become open as we enter a new season. adam has led on this and i am learning to trust in the process. our house has held many memories. it sat in a unique urban neighborhood. we will miss the sweet community of believers striving to love a place so marked by the challenges of city neighborhoods. we learned much. we moved into the neighborhood as newlyweds 10 years ago and bought our house 5 years later. it was a good place for us and it is hard to move. but there are seasons for things and our family needs a change. we trust that just as we felt our house was God's good provision for us for a time, so now being free from home-ownership is His provision for us too. adam's work in the ER has made it more and more stressful to come home to the city. home seemed stressful, with old house problems and city-neighborhood problems. we felt the weight of expensive home repairs and looming med-school debt. we did not try hard to sell it, but decided if someone wanted to buy it, we should be open to discussing it. some friends approached us just a few weeks before owen was born and a month or so later it was sold! we scrambled to find a place to go, i have been anxious, but God has provided a wonderful place for us to rent as well while we wait to see what adventure God has for us next, and while adam finishes up residency. we moved two weeks after owen was born and had a 2 week gap before we could move into our rental. i panicked about that too, but another wonderful place was provided for us thanks to very kind friends. so here are some farewell pictures of our first house that we loved. we will miss the proximity of so many of our neighbors and friends, but we are really only moving about 10 minutes away so we can keep up with folks. and we trust God will give us many opportunities to love our new neighbors. i'll miss all my plants, but am eager to plant things when we move in. overall we are very thankful.

1 comment:

Kevin and Tara said...

Goodness - that made me so sad - y'all have made such sweet memories there and have been so faithful to that neighborhood - May God bless your steps foward...my great aunt up in New York told me the last time I saw her (speaking of her husbands death) "All good things must come to an end" and perhaps that is true on this broken side of heaven ... But oh the joy we have for eternity - where the good will never end. Love to you all!